Sw Prem Nirvan
(Arthur D. Saftlas)
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The "Relationship Doctor" Nirvan, helps you heal your love relationship by teaching the truth. I'm not talking about the truth you may sometimes withhold from your partner, but the truth of what actually happens in your relationships. My view is that relationships provide us with life's lessons, and any difficulty in relating simply points to the lesson we need to learn next. Relationships are only hard, because we resist hard lessons.
My skill is easily recognizing what you need to become aware of to transform the quality of your relationship; and communicating with you how you can integrate the teaching into your being.
Below is a list of some lessons you may find enlightening.
- We are unaware we are each mirrors for each other
- We fail to take responsibility for our feelings and instead blame another for how we feel
- We take everything personally when nothing is ever personal
- We haven't yet realized love has nothing to do with another person
- We don't see our judgments block any ability to clearly perceive another
- We don't understand communication is really about being present in the moment
- We don't get the essence of communication is about acknowledging feelings
- We confuse love with neediness and restrict anothers freedom
- We believe in fairytales and punish another for failing to fulfill our dreams
- We unconsciously play out our parents relationship in our own
- We don't know what it is to be present and loving in sex
- We unconsciously react to anothers moods or actions
- We don't know how to be vunerable or show this side of ourselves
- We don't really understand much of what is said here. If you can admit you have much to learn, then because of your openness, radical shifts can happen in your present relationship. If not, then the same lessons will be presented to you in subsequent relationships. (And please note that only one person needs to change to transform any relationship.)
Osho gave me the name Swami Prem Nirvan, I am also known as Arthur Saftlas. I am a meditation teacher and a relationship and communication counselor who works one-on-one and with couples, usually privately at my residence in marin. Please feel free to contact me with any questions. My fees are on a sliding scale.
Contact Details
- address
- Marin County, CA
- USA
- phones
- Phone: +1 415 925-1648
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